The Alliance
After the curtains have dropped and you are alone, do you know who you are?
You might know how to command a room.
How to negotiate high-stakes deals.
You might even know how to reassure others,
and outwardly you seem to have it all.
How to negotiate high-stakes deals.
You might even know how to reassure others,
and outwardly you seem to have it all.
Despite having hundreds of people surrounding you,
have any of them ever known you?
Have you ever known any of them?
have any of them ever known you?
Have you ever known any of them?
When you have a closer look at those questions, you may be surprised by your answer.
We are interested in your personal connections here; we do not give any importance to your secondary relationships.
We know that dependency stems from disconnecting from yourself, and those closest to you first,
then the disconnect spreads to every relationship you have.
then the disconnect spreads to every relationship you have.
This is not unique to you;
it’s one of the main ingredients that invites the appeal to escape through the soothing, numbing effects of alcohol and drugs.
Since it’s the way it’s always been… it’s become normal
Intense success often masks deep, private isolation.
Most accomplished individuals are trapped in relationships based entirely on performance—
performance at work
performance socially
and performance financially
performance at work
performance socially
and performance financially
When your entire world is conditioned on what you can produce, life begins to feel entirely superficial.
You can be in a room of hundreds, outwardly commanding and present,
yet completely empty the moment the performance ends.
yet completely empty the moment the performance ends.
While you have built extraordinary competence in your professional life,
your private, personal environment has quietly gone unattended.
your private, personal environment has quietly gone unattended.
The wake-up call comes
Human beings rarely look inward until a major wake-up call—
a sudden illness
a crisis
a fractured marriage
a sudden illness
a crisis
a fractured marriage
or worse, watching one of your children follow in your footsteps—
which forces them to become desperate to change.
which forces them to become desperate to change.
The Deslongchamps Method hopes to be of service to you before life forces you to become desperate.
Unfortunately, when someone knocks on our door, it’s usually because they already got the call.
We will get this right
When you start with our program, we will spend time with you selecting your choice of restoration coach.
We will send you portfolios of restoration coaches who we are familiar with, who are the top in their field of expertise.
You are given a choice of extraordinary human beings to serve as your Central Partner.
You will read about their lives, their families, their values, and their stories—allowing you to choose the one you feel deeply connected to.
Each choice comes with a full bio of them; in their bio is enough of their personal restoration story.
You will learn about their family, their professional lives, likes and dislikes, values and principles.
We must get the right fit for you because whoever you choose is going to play a lead part in your restoration process.
If you’ve chosen the wrong fit, we reset the process until the perfect alignment is found.
Before they even step through your door, you will feel like you already know them.
After everyone has gone home
Your Coach stands as a solid rock through your darkest quiet moments.
You do not have to impress them
you do not have to convince them
and you do not have to perform.
you do not have to convince them
and you do not have to perform.
They provide an unassailable psychological anchor that allows you to finally drop the armor.
They are present with you, after everyone’s gone home.
Your restoration coach acts as your personal peer and partner, steering you toward the ultimate goal: to know thyself.
Your Coach is the first person from your team you will meet.
They manage all arrangements behind the scenes,
help you structure daily habits
accompany you on high-stakes business trips, if you’d like
and remain an anchor you can talk to—yes, even at 3:00 a.m.
help you structure daily habits
accompany you on high-stakes business trips, if you’d like
and remain an anchor you can talk to—yes, even at 3:00 a.m.
They become an honest alliance, you have nothing to hide, they’ve been there too.
Know Thyself…Because without that, you cannot truly know anyone else.